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How to NOT Settle In Life


Under any circumstances, never settle in any area of your life.

What do I mean by “never settle?”

I mean do not let your current circumstances, situation, or environment run how you live your life.  Do not let it control how your live.

Do not let your current circumstance prevent you from moving forward in life.

Do NOT get complacent.

Do NOT get to a point where you say “I’m good.  I don’t need to learn more.”

Let me give you an example.

I have heard many dads tell me “I already have a good relationship with my daughter, I don’t need any help.  I don’t need anything else.”

You know, I have a great relationship with my daughter.  Just because I have a great relationship doesn’t mean that my learning stops.

It doesn’t mean that I can’t learn anything new.

It doesn’t mean that new challenges will not arise with each new life stage my daughter enters into.

There is ALWAYS something to learn. I will ALWAYS mess something up.

The day we stop learning, is the day we die.

When we get complacent, we get LAZY.  This is a dangerous place to be.

When you think that your situation cannot change and therefore stop trying, you lose hope.  You begin dying inside.

You begin to think that “this is just who you are and how things are going to be for you.”

You begin believing the lie.

When you get lazy, or give up hope,  in one area, it will spread to other areas of your life.

Over time, you will wonder why your life has deteriorated.

It didn’t happen over night.

It happened gradually over time, with the little decisions you have made.

With the thoughts you had over time.

With the actions you took over time.

All because you INNOCENTLY said “I’m good.”

Learning never stops.  As long as you are breathing, there is something NEW to learn.

As long as you are moving forward in life, there is something to learn.

Watch the video to learn more.


You were born to MOVE.  You were born to CREATE.  You were born to continue LEARNING and grow DAILY.

You were not born to coast through life, or just go through the motions.

You were born to make a difference.  To make an impact from your story that only you can make.

Your daughters are watching.  They see how you interact with them.

They see how you react or respond with the world.

They are learning from you.

Take responsibility for your life TODAY!

Don’t play the VICTIM anymore.

DECIDE that your life will change.  DECIDE that you will be the best man and dad you can possibly be, so your daughter can be the best woman she can be.

You have amazing dreams for your daughter.  You want her to be confident, strong, beautiful, and loving.

It starts with YOU.


Now it’s your turn.

What’s one thing that resonated with you in this message in regard to not settling?

What is one thing you have done that has worked at preventing you from settling?


UNLEASH your personal power today, so that your daughter can unleash her personal power.

Dads that are trying to do it all alone, hire me to help them to NOT SETTLE, and UNLEASH their PERSONAL POWER so they can be more and do more for their daughters.

So they can build a powerful relationship with their daughters.

So they can excel in all areas of their life that are important to them.

If you, or someone you know, is looking to unleash their personal power, I would love the opportunity to have a conversation with you or them.

Send me an email and let’s schedule a time to learn more about you, your dreams, and your daughter.

Give me some of your time and I will show you opportunities you didn’t think were possible.

Remember, dads are the standard by which our daughters not only view the world, but by which they will judge all men as well.

Let’s Raise the standard!

Embrace your new beginning!